βA truly transcendent weekend of celebration. Watching you exchange vows in the sunken rose gardens was pure poetry. Wishing you both centuries of boundless joy and heirloom love.β
Charlotte & William
A family estate, an early-autumn weekend and a celebration designed to feel as though it has always belonged here.
The Weekend Book
The curated programme and timetable for the wedding weekend at the estate
Countdown to the Solemnization
Welcome Gathering
Light refreshments and an unhurried evening with family and friends.
The Ceremony
Please arrive thirty minutes early to be comfortably seated.
Refreshments
Sparkling citrus, botanical sodas and seasonal canapΓ©s.
Dinner Reception
Dinner, speeches, cake and an evening together.
Farewell Brunch
A relaxed breakfast before everyone heads home.
Manor Quarters & Logistics
Estate accommodations, room allocations, and arrival particulars
The Duke's Wing
Four master suites with private drawing rooms, heritage fireplaces, and garden views reserved for direct family.
The Garden Lodges
Spacious guest lodgings overlooking the sunken rose gardens and stone fountains for travelling guests.
The Estate Cottages
Charming stone cottages situated along the cedar lane, ideal for parties desiring seclusion and country charm.
House Etiquette & Attire
Traditional Black-Tie standards, 3-star editorial attire inspiration, and recommended estate color palette
The Midnight Wool Tuxedo

βTraditional peak-lapel wool tuxedo with grosgrain silk satin facings, crisp pleated marcella dress shirt, hand-tied black silk bow tie, and black patent leather oxfords.β
Approved Estate Evening Color Palette
Guests are invited to draw inspiration from the ancestral Manor grounds: deep forest velvets, midnight black baratheas, champagne golds, and crisp vellum neutrals.
Unplugged Ceremony
We kindly request that all mobile phones and cameras remain silent and stored during the chapel solemnization. Professional photographers will capture the moment.
Estate Registry & Gifts
Your presence at the estate is our greatest gift. For those wishing to contribute to our new home, the private registry details are available upon request.
Archival Portraits & Moments
An enduring photographic collection of family heirlooms, intimate moments, and formal celebration
The House Register
Kindly respond by the first of August to confirm your presence at the estate
The Manor Guest Book
Inscribe your timeless wishes, heartfelt memories, and blessings into the permanent estate archive.
With Our Deepest Gratitude
βTo all our esteemed family and dearest friends who graced Ashbourne House to celebrate our wedding weekend β your presence, laughter, and timeless blessings have enriched our lives beyond measure.β
Sign the Manor Ledger
Inscribe your handwritten keepsake note
Ancestral Ledger Entries
4 Inscriptions RecordedβThe candlelight dinner in the Great Hall and the string quartet in the conservatory will remain in our hearts forever. To a union written in the stars and grounded in timeless grace.β
βFrom the morning dawn over the estate gardens to the midnight ballroom waltz, every single moment was pure aristocracy. All our deepest blessings to Lord & Lady Sterling.β
βMerveilleux! The hospitality of the manor estate was matched only by the radiant joy in your eyes. FΓ©licitations pour ce mariage magnifique!β

